So - you have a love/hate relationship with pictures? You love to look at portrait sessions of friends and family members, but you feel that you do not look as good as someone else. I've been there. Yep - this photographer used to HATE having his own picture taken. Like many, I was self-conscious of my body. I'm a chicken armed, beer bellied, bad postured, fat-lipped mess! Or at least that's what I saw when I looked at my own photo. You know what the truth is? No one else cares what I think of myself, because they see me as a person, not a model in a magazine ad. Once I figured that out, I stopped caring how I looked physically in an image. To the right is a selfie I made last year. If I cover up my face, and force myself to look at the image as if it isn't of myself, then I am able to see that I don't look like a sloppy mess. Granted... this image hides any beer belly with a black shirt, shadows, and a tenor sax...(which I may...